If it appears to be what you want, keep it…there's going to be a learning curve with anything.
Sorry to DJTT, but there aren't great beginner resources on this site I've found
http://www.djforums.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=19
The stickies at the top are good, especially
http://www.djforums.com/forums/showthread.php?t=91270
The OP is a DJ based out of Midlands UK who's tried to retire and can't. He's spun for Hed Kandi and was playing in Ibiza before trance went completely over the top batshit and now plays good House. He knows his sh*t, and those videos have helped out more than a few.
As for your other question…my first experience DJing was normal for the time and for decades preceding it. I started on a pair of sl-1200mk2s and a POS, broken, bleeding-fader Gemini 2-channel mixer and a crate of vinyl I ended up hating 99% of that I got from a friend of a friend. I nearly went broke buying records so I could trainwreck my way through learning. I got so damn sick of my first 5 records, that I'm pretty sure the only record I still have from my first 6 months is a record of cafe del mar remixes that I've repurchased digital copies of.
I stopped trainwrecking quite so badly in a matter of days/weeks, but it was a couple months before I thought I was even pretending to be competent. I completely killed that mixer, had a Behringer die in a matter of days, and went with a vestax that lasted me through a LOT of other equipment until about a year ago when I finally went 100% computer.
DJing has a very serious learning curve if you want to do it right. Modern stuff–like the NS7 and it's sync button–helps in only the most basic ways, so if you thought that going digital was going to flatten the learning curve, well…it won't do nearly as much as you thought it would. You get to skip over my first few weeks. After that…nothing is different.
If you want to flatten the learning curve, take the way we used to learn and do what you can. Pick like 5 songs you have that go together (similar style…preferably longer songs…similar BPM, etc.) and mix the hell out of them. It might be best to choose songs that you like but aren't
really attached to, because–as I said–I threw away 4 out of my first 5 records because I got sick of them.
Even with sync, it'd be worth using the old trick of mixing between 2 copies of the same song…just to learn structure. And, to learn manual beat matching, there's no better way. I think doing some of that might save you from the digital curse that plagues so many young DJs…they skip over that first step and immediately think that effects, hot cues, and "eclectic sets" are what real DJs do. They all skip an important evolution, and learning the old way–even with modern tools–is how you avoid it.
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