Sometimes you have to bite the bullet and venture out solo. Best way to meet people and have a good time as you don't have to "baby sit" anyone and can get as wild as you want.
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Took me years to realize, but when I did it was quite a revelation. Going out by yourself can be loads of fun, some of the coolest partying experiences I had were when "flying solo". (Hell, once I waited in line in front of the Bar25 by myself for almost 2 hours on a sunday evening - around midnight - but damn the party was worth it)
So by all means, don't let the reluctance of your friends to join in keep you from going to the parties you want to go to. In the end this would only make you miserable ;)
I agree with all those guys. But like alot of it has to do with the music people listen to in the area. Like I have no problem getting booked if i want to spin dubstep but when I try and get booked for Hardstyle or Happy Hardcore its like 90% not gonna happen.
And venues wont book you unless they know you will bring a crowd.