I listen to damn near everything, and I play damn near everything. BUT, you do have to have some standards. Even though mine are low, I do not take all request, and I am not a wedding DJ. Sometimes you just can’t please everyone, but I do focus on pleasing the majority.
I got into this because first and foremost, I’m a dancer. Madison has a great scene of kids ready and willing to go into your dirty old basement and dance till 5am, known as the “Dance party scene”. After one regular basement was getting too much heat from the cops, I started my own. It started with one full-range Yorkville bass amp, Winamp, and a collection of all my roommate’s Mp3’s.
I eventual built a real PA, and a monkey bar, and a stripper pole platform, and a full bar. The parties became so big that people were in line outside in the back driveway to get in. The point I’m trying to make is that I focussed more on a fun dancing experience, than what “I” wanted to listen too, or even DJ’n for that matter, and the people loved it! I’ve played in four different venues downtown (one turned into a weekly gig), and some large co-op sponsored dance parties. The owners never cared I wasn’t a real DJ, they just loved to see the crowd fired up. It seems like I was the only one who really cared that I was not DJ’n, so I finally spilled my pennies on some gear to practice with.
Now I’m in a new house that cannot hold parties, and I’m spending all my time practicing with Traktor so I will have real DJ skills. I will still read the crowd and give them what they want, but I hope to be able to add my own creative style on top of it.
I never called myself a DJ, and I’m still not there yet. I just know that for me personally, I love to give everyone a great time. There are a lot of songs I would love to dance to, but I can only play them early, or not at all, because the crowd will just go back to their bar stools.
Maybe you’re right. Cater to the crowd till someday they wont care what you are playing, cause they came specifically to see you.