Gig stealing..etiquette?

[djproben]

Sick, right? Think I’ve been watching too many episodes of Californication…

[exokinetic]

@djproben

(sorry, just had to; if you’re easily offended please go to disney.com or something)

Hey gang, wanted to get opinions on something~

This weekend I went over to hang out with a friend who tends bar at a Dave and Buster’s type joint (it’s mostly like a karaoke bar, but it’s a big floor complex that has partitions for pool/darts and arcade games). I’d never been there before; but anyway, so after awhile she was introducing me to the people she worked with, and then I got to meet her husband. This surprised me because I was completely convinced that her sexual satisfaction came entirely from a vibrator, or from watching streaming over one of those commercial porn networks. No foreplay, no kissing, nibbling, and biting, no intelligent flow whatsoever… I swear I heard the old in-out followed by loud snoring.

So I go check out what this guy is doing, and basically he’s sticking it in and just letting it go. And great for him I thought, he gets to hang out with his wife, no pressure really…hell who cares if he’s not getting much reciprocation…wrong. Wife claims she blows him every hour, 4-6 hours a night, 6 days a week

Needless to say, I was amazed. I talked with the wife some more, and she didn’t seem to be exactly gushing with contentment about her orgasms as of late. Now background fingering while the wife is entertaining herself otherwise is one thing, but apparently they have special events during the week where she actually wants to get it on, and it happens to the same old setup.

So obviously, I want in on this. I think I can do a much better job than what I saw Friday, if nothing else for the Mondays and Wednesdays that she really wants to be satisfied. Basically I want to know if the prevailing mantra is “business is business” and who cares if I swoop in and bomb some kid out of his sexy wife…or should I take a less dickish approach?

I feel like if I could convince the wife to let me do the nasty with her, she’d easily see a big contrast. But I feel a bit out of sorts blazing in there having just met all these people with thoughts of taking somebody’s wife.

Is there a right way to go about this? Would love some thoughts.

WIN.

…and…

/End thread.

[Quenepas]

I say the guy doing the itunes in sitting on top of something that is giving hi the chance to perform better and the opportunity to grow and go to the next step but he’s sitting on it and doing nothing. If you dont take the chance somebody else who gives less of a shit than you will. The world aint easy and he isnt your friend. Shaft the shit out of him. For someone to do it to you you better give the first punch. If he’s a friend of yours then no. But if not, eat his lunch before someone else does.

[ponyboy]

If it’s just Mondays and Wednesdays then go for it, you aren’t stealing anything, the manager wants a party on those days and isn’t getting it, so should bring someone esle in to make it happen.

[Nesquigs]

it literally boils down to, can you do a better job than this joker?

i had a gig on friday that a friend undercut me for… then a week before the gig i got it back because the lady who was planning it found out he was gonna use his 3 disk cd system plugged into his beats computer to use a cracked version of VDJ to run a dance for 400+ kids.

i got a call real quick once she found that out… so the moral is. show that you can do a better job and be more professional and youll get the gig NBD. no need to shit all over another person (although it woulda been hilarious to watch this kid fail – no flow, no thought to what he plays AND he doesnt even mix. theres always ALOT of silence between tracks when he plays).