Alright so as far as intimiate relationships go, I personally believe that I don’t take a girl that I respect to a college rager. It is my personal belief that the drinking and atmosphere will lead one of us to do something that isn’t healthy or positive for a monogamous relationship.
Alas, I know that if I had gone along with these girls projections, they/it (fuck english) would have forestalled the inevitable breakup. My question is, have any of you been able to make it work with one of these type of girls?
It’s like a bar to meet a female, she is definitely going to show bar beezy tendencies sooner or later.
Ya me and my current girlfriend go to parties pretty frequently with our friends and what not and both often get quite drunk. The good thing is if we’re drunk we’re can’t keep our hands off of each other that nothing is likely to happen and we just end up leaving to find someplace else.
But until that point it’s fun to just dance and have fun and be crazy! Just, don’t do that with other girls…
So basically trust I guess is where I’m headed right now. Not sure what my point is…
From my personal experience Alcohol makes every female a dirty little :eek:, and one night stands have done nothing to advance the relationship.
When I think of a girl I can pick up at a bar I think of how many dudes she has woke up next to and not even known their full name.
We are in the times where sex is nothing of importance, and it is almost expected to have sex with a person before you should decide if you want to get to know them.
Thank’s guys. I appreciate it. I just got out of a relationship because my partner felt like she really needed to party and socialize like that. I’m sober because of my drug addictions and neurosis. I see them in other people very easily now. I just worry because this has been the story of the last several relationships I’ve been in. Not that I’m worried about girls. I’ve got a body that could shame adonnis; but I would like to do the most fair thing possible, and by that I mean being open minded to other potential facets of a relationship. Drinking again just sounds like bad news bears now matter how I slice it tho.
Me and my girl party all the time… Thats what we do and thats how we met really. But she does get off at me sometimes because I can never really stay in very much.
